Archive - How to Evolve

What to Expect in 2025

If 2024 was bizarre, what's next?

Dec 29, 2024 •

For the Love of Christmas, Be Your Own Santa

A reformed Grinch shares some tips

Dec 20, 2024 •

Exorcising my arse

No, that is not a typo, there is a devil in my glutes

Dec 13, 2024 •

What Hilary Mantel Did For Me, in a Year of Wolf Hall

Never Forget that Words Can Change Your Life

Dec 6, 2024 •

November 2024

An Otterly New Approach to Life

A sign of things to come

Nov 29, 2024 •

The Dog Walk of Appreciation

On surrendering to unwanted things

Nov 22, 2024 •

How to build strong women? Abuse them.

How "traditional" men turn pleasers into warriors

Nov 15, 2024 •

Fear and Fury is Easy. But Choose What You Want More Of.

A response to US Election result

Nov 8, 2024 •

There Will Be Fireworks

Scraps from a notebook

Nov 5, 2024 •

From Brilliant Programmer to Bad Waitress

Starting from scratch after escaping coercive control

Nov 1, 2024 •

October 2024

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